Sharing a simple post of spring muses & inspo, but before we jump in, I want to highlight one emotional breakthrough. This is the season where we’re letting blind faith lead us. I don’t have any answers but I know my worth and my value, and I finally feel like I can trust myself fully. I’ve finally realized that how other people treat me has nothing to do with my worth and has everything to do with their character - especially as I navigate dating.

So when a guy is cruel and cold to me for no reason and can’t regulate his emotions, I know it’s not a reflection on me. And that breakthru alone is healing decades of shame, self-doubt and shattered confidence. This is the season I learn to stand on my own two feet and prove to myself they I can cultivate a life that feels good all on my own. 

I am practicing being a woman who is emotionally and financially strong and is capable of giving herself everything she wants with or without a life partner. Raising a family, traveling, dressing well, spending time with loved ones, owning a brownstone the list goes on and on, but as soon as I start believing that I can have versions of this all on my own, that’s when I step into my power.

I spent so many years of my life thinking I needed to be saved, just to look around and realize that true freedom starts and ends with me showing up and becoming the woman I know I’m capable of being.