Spring Forward
March 22, 2026
Sharing a simple post of spring muses & inspo, but before we jump in, I want to highlight one emotional breakthrough. This is the season where we’re letting blind faith lead us. I don’t have any answers but I know my worth and my value, and I finally feel like I can trust myself fully. I’ve finally realized that how other people treat me has nothing to do with my worth and has everything to do with their character - especially as I navigate dating.
So when a guy is cruel and cold to me for no reason and can’t regulate his emotions, I know it’s not a reflection on me. And that breakthru alone is healing decades of shame, self-doubt and shattered confidence. This is the season I learn to stand on my own two feet and prove to myself they I can cultivate a life that feels good all on my own.
I am practicing being a woman who is emotionally and financially strong and is capable of giving herself everything she wants with or without a life partner. Raising a family, traveling, dressing well, spending time with loved ones, owning a brownstone the list goes on and on, but as soon as I start believing that I can have versions of this all on my own, that’s when I step into my power.
I spent so many years of my life thinking I needed to be saved, just to look around and realize that true freedom starts and ends with me showing up and becoming the woman I know I’m capable of being.
March Mood Board 2019: Spring Inspiration
March 16, 2019
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| Photo by Tom Grimbert ; Photo by Earth ; Photo by Paula Borowska ; Photo by Sérgio Rola; Photo by Bee Balogun |
Spring is right around the corner my friends. This past week was actually pretty nice. We saw some warmth and sunshine; it was exactly what I needed. Call me an optimist, but I truly think sping will come early for us this year, which is music to my ears because I'm dying to take my spring wardrobe out of storage!!! I've recently become obsessed with Fallon's wardrobe from the show Dynasty, and I want to emulate it. But I can't really wear blazers and miniskirts without stockings until the weather hits 60. Until then, I'm stuck dreaming of warmer weather and tropical destinations.
This spring, I want to focus on creating a life I'm actually excited about. And I finally realize that in order to achieve this life full of freedom and joy, I have to make a lot of temporary sacrifices. I don't want to work in a freaking cubicle for the next 40 years, and I don't want to worry about my finances. Both of these goals require a lot of hard work and a lot of saying "no". No to some (not all but some) social plans, no to spending extra money and no to fun distractions.
Although I understand that my life is about to become a lot more structured and full of discipline, I don't want to become so laser-focused on my goals that I neglect the other areas of my life. I'm planning to learn as I go and try to take things a lot less seriously. If you know me well, you know that I tend to take everything to the extreme. What can I say? I'm an extra af bitch. But I firmly believe that I have to learn to let go of the things I can't control in order to ascend into the life I desire. So cheers to learning how to go after our dreams while simultaneously swallowing a chill pill in order to avoid driving ourselves crazy.
What are 3 things that you realize you will have to temporarily sacrifice in order to level up in life? Write them down on a pretty piece of stationary and hang it on your wall. Or, share them in the comments below so we can be each other's accountability partners. Wishing you all the love and joy in the world. Thank you so much for taking a moment of your day to read this post. I can't tell you enough how much I appreciate it. Until next time my friend.


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